Let Your Pup Decompress

By Gary Newcomb


Gary is a contributing editor and works closely with The Little Red Dog as a volunteer and trainer. His own company PawsRMade4Walkin.com works with families who currently have problems with their pups. You can also listen to Gary every other week on our Podcast, For The Love of Dog

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When you adopt a dog, there will be a transition period where the dog is settling in and you are getting to know each other. Those first days and weeks are going to be the foundation for your new life together.

Imagine being taken by people you don't know, driven somewhere you've never been and told it's your new family and home. Many dogs experience the same nervousness you and I would in the situation.

When you bring a dog home, they need time to decompress. Allowing them the time and space to get back to a calm state of mind, and comfortably get to know the new environment. During that time, try to keep everything calm and soothing for them. Give the dog love with gentle guidance, exercise and playing. Bonding through quiet times together at their pace.

PREPARE SPACES:
Designated cozy spots where the dog is allowed to relax are important, and comfy bedding is necessary. The dog should have some common area beds as well as safe spaces in the home that they can retreat to.

GIVE THEM SPACE:
  • The natural reaction to getting a new furry family member is wanting to love on them, inviting family and friends to meet them, and making them the center of the party! Don't.
  • Forcing too much on your pup may scare them and make them feel vulnerable. By doing this, you can inadvertently make your dog scared in their new home, requiring training to overcome.
  • Give your dog space for the first few days. If they want affection, they will come to you when they feel comfortable.
  • If the dog comes in, ready for love and wanting to play tug right away, great! Your transition will be easier. But if your new friend is reluctant at all, give them a few days to a couple weeks where they can gradually acclimate to their new surroundings and family.

BUT...
In this transition period, it is important to still establish all the rules and boundaries you intend to have. Something I say all the time: "Never allow a dog to do something you don't always want it to do".

This includes a new dog!

Gary Newcomb
Dog Trainer for 17 years and Owner of Paws R Made 4 Walkin
PawsRMade4Walkin.com


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